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Shelley is a compassionate, discerning, and relationally gifted woman with a deep love for Jesus and a heart for hospitality. She brings warmth and authenticity to every space she enters, making others feel seen, welcomed, and valued. Shelley’s ministry style complements mine beautifully—where I like to lead through teaching, discipleship, and vision, she leads through

Rejection in ministry isn’t just professional—it’s personal. When we pursue a pastoral role, we’re not just submitting a resume; we’re offering our heart, our story, and our sense of calling. And when the answer comes back as “no,” it can feel like a door slammed shut not only on opportunity, but on identity. I’ve been

“Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.”—Philippians 3:12 (ESV) There are seasons in every believer’s life when perseverance feels like a battle. The vision is clear, but the road is long. The calling is

Many people (including churches) struggle with how to speak about marriage and divorce in a way that is both biblically faithful and pastorally gracious. “I still affirm God’s design for marriage.” “I have known the pain of brokenness and the grace of healing.” “God’s purposes for me are not over. They’ve been reshaped by grace.”

Apprentice to Christ is a reference to the Ways, Words, and Works of Jesus as a helpful framework used in spiritual formation and discipleship to describe what it means to follow Jesus fully—not just in belief, but in lifestyle, heart posture, and mission. 3 Part Teaching Guide on Ways, Words, Works of Jesus The Ways

In a recent interview, I was asked why I believe I would make a good pastor.  The following is my response: Truly nothing in and of myself, except Christ and His Holy Spirit working in and through me! My personal story is one of transformation and grace.  I was the first person in my family

I feel a deep calling to serve God and His people in a more comprehensive and dedicated way. Throughout my life, I’ve experienced God’s transformative power firsthand – from my own conversion at 14 to witnessing the spiritual transformation of my family. These experiences have instilled in me a passion for helping others connect or

By prioritizing hospitality, I aim to create an environment where people can genuinely connect, grow spiritually, and experience God’s love through practical acts of service and welcoming. Personal experience: Having felt like an outsider in my childhood and during difficult times in my life, I understand the importance of creating a welcoming environment for others.

My perspective on death has been shaped by the Bible, my faith and personal experiences with loss. I’ve faced the deaths of several close family members, including my younger sister Wendy at a young age, my grandmother while in college, my father in 2007, and both my grandfather and older brother in 2020 due to

My spiritual journey began in earnest at age 14 when I attended Willow Springs Baptist Temple in Kilgore, Texas. This was my first meaningful church experience, and it led to my conversion to Christianity – a pivotal moment that transformed my life. I felt my throat tighten and a hunger come over me to know

My perspective on counseling is deeply rooted in my faith and life experiences. I view counseling as an integral part of pastoral care, combining spiritual guidance with practical support for individuals. My approach is firmly grounded in biblical principles, as I believe the Word of God is the ultimate authority in life and faith. Biblical

My philosophy of ministry is rooted in my deep love for God, His Word, His people, and His Church. As I grow in Christ and better understand my Creator, His purpose for me, and the world around me, I expect my philosophy to evolve. My primary goal in serving the Lord is to utilize my